This may seem like a very strange pet peeve to some. Why does it matter
if your friend does not stand up for you, when you have the ability to fend for
yourself and seek other support systems? The one of many problems which teenagers
face even in today's day and age is bullying. Sure, teachers and parents do not
support bullying, but it still occurs and there is a difference when a friend
is there for you and when an adult intervenes in the situation. Most teens
value their friends' opinions and seek advice from them more often than they
would from their parents or other adults. I feel that it is due to the fact
that kids can relate more to kids their own age because they spend more time
together during the day. Also, the bond of friendship can provide different
emotional support than a parent can offer.
It disappoints and annoys me to see friends who are supposedly
"there for you" enable bullies through being bystanders or even
participating in the act itself. I feel that this is one of the most ultimate
forms of betrayal because without the support of those who matter most, kids
will begin to feel deserving of the bullying. Friends have a very powerful
influence on each other and it annoys me when they sell their friends out for
peer pressure.